Build a Solid Foundation With Premarital Counselling in Vancouver
Give Your Relationship a Fighting Chance with Counselling Before Marriage
Whether you’re getting married for the first time, have found a second love, or are beginning a new marital journey with kids in tow, investing in premarital counselling can start your marriage on the right foot. Foreseeing future difficulties can be challenging during the blissful pre-marriage stage, but it’s crucial for you and your partner to prepare for real life beyond the “honeymoon phase.”
Every relationship will experience stress from time to time. You may communicate differently, have varying ideals based on your upbringing, or struggle with how to handle disagreements without causing hurt.
As a registered clinical counselor, I can help you and your partner explore the preconceptions and expectations you both bring to the relationship. With my structured and caring guidance, you can lay all your cards on the table, discuss important topics, and learn more about one another before you tie the knot.
Why Premarital Counselling in Vancouver is So Beneficial
Preparation is key in many aspects of life. Taking the time to genuinely understand your partner and identify your relationship’s strengths and areas for growth sets you up for lifelong success.
Research has shown several benefits to premarital counselling. Through this process, I can help you and your partner:
- Achieve higher levels of marital satisfaction
- Develop a greater capacity to withstand stressful seasons
- Remain respectful during difficult discussions
- Be more likely to seek help during challenging times
- Feel a deeper commitment to one another at the five-year mark
The reality is that marriage isn’t always easy. There will be struggles, times when you hurt each other, and difficult situations to navigate. However, investing in premarital counselling is an investment in your relationship, both now and for the future.
Topics Often Covered in Premarital Counselling
Your relationship is unique, and so are the challenges you face. During therapy for couples preparing for marriage, we’ll address issues and concerns that specifically apply to you and your partner.
What to Expect in Premarital Counselling With Me
One of the benefits of enrolling in counselling before marriage is that it gives you valuable time, separate from the hustle and bustle, to truly focus on your relationship. During our sessions, I will present structured questions designed to identify your relationship’s strengths and areas needing more attention.
Here’s what you can expect when you enroll in premarital counselling with me:
- Complete separate questionnaires to reveal your strengths and growth areas.
- Come together to discuss and create an action plan to strengthen your relationship.
- Engage in at-home practice exercises using strategies learned in our sessions to address areas of conflict.
Attend eight to twelve weekly or bi-weekly sessions lasting 75-100 minutes.
The ideal time to begin counselling before marriage is at least six months to a year before your wedding, during the excitement of engagement, and before you dive into the details of wedding planning. However, if your wedding date is approaching sooner, investing in therapy for couples before the big day is always a wise choice.